If you live in a POA community like our beloved Big Canoe, you’ve probably seen it: someone raises a valid concern, and almost instantly, someone responds with, “Why don’t you run for the board?”
It might sound reasonable at first. But let’s be honest—this is rarely a sincere suggestion. More often, it’s a way to dismiss criticism and shut down the conversation. Here’s why that’s a problem.
Feedback Is Everyone’s Right
Imagine telling your mechanic your brakes are acting up, and he replies, “Why don’t you fix it yourself?” You’d be rightly frustrated. It’s her/his job to listen and solve the issue—just like it’s the POA board’s job to listen to the community.
You don’t have to be on the board to spot problems or offer ideas. Constructive feedback from property owners and residents is vital to improving how our community operates.
Focus on the Message, Not the Messenger
“Why don’t you run?” is a deflection. It shifts the spotlight from the issue to the person raising it. That’s not only unproductive—it’s discouraging. It tells others their input isn’t welcome unless they’re willing to run for office. That’s a dangerous precedent in any community.
We’re All in This Together
Caring about Big Canoe doesn’t require a seat on the board. It requires showing up, asking questions, and staying engaged. Dismissing concerns helps no one. Engaging with them—even when it’s uncomfortable—is how we grow stronger.
Next time someone raises a valid point, let’s not silence the messenger. Let’s hear them out and address the issue. That’s how communities get better.
With Respect, A Growing Group of Concerned Property Owners & Residents
