Facebook can be a difficult place for civil discussion—especially when it concerns our own Big Canoe community.
A quick review of the threads reveals a troubling pattern: a small, vocal minority—often individuals employed by or closely associated with the POA—dominates the conversation, frequently targeting anyone who questions decisions made by Big Canoe management. At times, this behavior crosses the line into outright bullying.
Posting anonymously is a personal choice—and often necessary to avoid backlash or harassment. Yet, instead of engaging with ideas, some respond with personal attacks, questioning identity or motives rather than addressing concerns.
This silences voices, intimidates residents, and fosters fear. Many who might otherwise speak up now stay silent, fearing hostility.
If this is our environment, we should ask why hostility arises—not why someone chooses anonymity. As Audre Lorde said, “Your silence will not protect you.” But silence should never be imposed by those unwilling to welcome open, respectful dialogue.
Big Canoe deserves better—a community where everyone feels safe to share ideas and ask tough questions, whether under their real name or anonymously.
Anonymity is not unusual here: public safety complaints, ARC violations, and property visits often start from anonymous tips. Our governance protects these mechanisms.
So why is it suddenly unacceptable when a concerned resident asks thoughtful questions anonymously?
We’re not here to play “gotcha.” We’re here to discuss real concerns—property values, gain accountability from our elected POA board, and make our future brighter.
This Facebook group was created by a growing group of concerned property owners to be an uncensored place for positive change –unlike the POA run N2N Facebook group and the POA owned Smoke Signals.
Everyone deserves a voice—especially if anonymity is the only way to avoid harassment at the Wellness Center, the Package Porch, The Food Truck, or even at Lowe’s.
If someone asks real, thoughtful questions about Big Canoe’s future, let’s respond to those ideas—not attack the person behind them.
We don’t have to agree on everything, but we must respect one another if we want this community to thrive.
Let’s focus on the issues and solutions—not identities. That’s how real dialogue begins.
With Respect, A Growing Group of Concerned Property Owners & Residents
